Christmas with the Monks

The answer was yes all along, just needed to make sure that my commitments were in order before I say yes so that I could leave and be in the moment for the break. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Warwick is one of the dearest people in my life, from knowing him as my personal trainer to now, a close friend that I could lean on when I’m going on a meltdown. He is among a select few who provided the perspective in life that helped me pushed the limit of my capabilities, both physically or mentally.

It was perfect timing as I was feeling the drain from everything that’s been grinding at me for the last month or so. Sleep and food started to become secondary, frustration building for no good reason and mind muddling through things that should be left alone. Seemed like I’ve overextended myself and focused too much on others, whether they are important or not. Time for a reset.

Meeting Warwick’s parents was one of the most ‘feel good’ moments ever. They were so welcoming and generous, I felt at home right from the get go and all my weariness started to wear off with the love and care they instilled into their loving home.

Debbie and Stephen are one of the cutest couples I’ve ever met. Forty years of marriage behind them and many more years of happy moments is what I wish for them. They epitomise what a relationship should be like, evolving with each other over the years through good and tough times and appreciating each other throughout the lifetime together. An inspiration and aspiration to those of us who needed reminding.

Durham

I was so content during my week with the Monks, from spending some quality time in the woods with Warwick to a laugh fest at the dinner table over Christmas meal and not forgetting the walk down the pier in North Shields that nearly blown us away…so windy! I was ruthless when it comes to playing games, realising now that I am still as competitive as ever and still not aware of it until Warwick mentioned my happy winning face. This is one of the best Christmas I’ve ever had.

North Shields

Thank you Debbie and Stephen for opening your hearts and home for a wandering soul who needed food for the mind, body and soul. I am forever grateful.

Thank you Warwick for being who you are. Love you superman!